Like I said, Ian has his own concsious to deal with.
I am not sure what you think my concsious has to deal with jeanette, but I can assure you it is clean today. Have I made mistakes in the past, yes. Those are mine to deal with and I have. Am I embarassed by them, absolutely. However, weakness occurrs even in the strongest of people. You deal with your actions and try the best you can to learn from your mistakes. Did I bring it here, on the boards, nope. I don't think there was any value added at the time and I used my friends and family to deal with it. Many were board members who respected my wishes to not discuss on the boards. Some apparantely fealt the need to discuss with others on this board, whatever. These are the inner circles of DBing and I get that, just a shame that they are held for times of judgment rather than addressed when they occur wouldnt you say???????
I had a one night stand with a girl who was friends with my daughter. I made a huge mistake. I have dealt with that and it is in the past. I do not talk to her, I do not need any to tell me why it was wrong, I am my own judge and have found myself guilty and handed down my own sentence for that.
Board relationships are very interesting because sometimes people assume there is more to them then there really is. I have made a very special friend on the boards. Someone who is near and dear to me because of the things we shared and discussed. In different circumstances who knows what would have occurred between the two of us. In our current situations nothing was going to happen and we were both very aware of that.
Two people do have the ability to have a very special friendship without it being more than just that. A very special friendship.
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One party is hurting.
This, is not something that anyone wanted. This, there was no way to see that it was going to happen. This, is between two people and my advice, do not cast judgment on what you do not know all about. If anyone for one fricken minute believes that I wanted pain or hurt to be caused to anyone, well you can kiss me where the sun doesnt shine because I guarantee you havent talked to me about it and are making your decisions without all the information. The statement made here that I quoted, there is only one person involved that I give a crap about and she knows that.
I have kept my tongue as well, because I was simply trying to get some things dealt with and they have nothing to do with the apparent issues that have come to light. I have always said that if you have a problem, bring it to me. Do not cast veiled dispursions and utter under your breathe. We are all adults here and this is real stuff that happens when you are in the middle of this crap. If you want to man up, then man up full force not half asssed.
Now, I am pretty sure that many of you are reading your screen and scratching your head like there is no tomorrow. It all makes sense though to those who skirt the issues and veil the truths that are there. You cannot BS a BSer and as many know, I know how to BS.
