Okay.

I've been reading everyone's sitch and how well some are doing DBing. I'm not.

Today I announce (to myself mostly) that I'm going to do this 100%. I have been GALing but that's it.

I need to "really really" detach. I need to be friendly to W, but not start the convos.

I need to stop snooping or worrying about what she's doing because there is nothing I can do about it.

I need to focus on Abby and me, Abby and me and if I didn't mention Abby and me!

I vow to give this my all and whatever happens at the end I'll be better for it.

If I do backslide, I hope everyone here (whoever's following) will let me have it. I've got good advice here and haven't always followed it. I'm ready to go!


M 35 W 28 D 4

Bomb 4/28/08
Found out about PA 05/14/08
Separated 5/25/08 (not legally)

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