I've been reading everyone's sitch and how well some are doing DBing. I'm not.
Today I announce (to myself mostly) that I'm going to do this 100%. I have been GALing but that's it.
I need to "really really" detach. I need to be friendly to W, but not start the convos.
I need to stop snooping or worrying about what she's doing because there is nothing I can do about it.
I need to focus on Abby and me, Abby and me and if I didn't mention Abby and me!
I vow to give this my all and whatever happens at the end I'll be better for it.
If I do backslide, I hope everyone here (whoever's following) will let me have it. I've got good advice here and haven't always followed it. I'm ready to go!
M 35 W 28 D 4
Bomb 4/28/08 Found out about PA 05/14/08 Separated 5/25/08 (not legally)