Maybe the drama about this should just end

there are clearly parts of the story that many people have heard many different versions of

i was privy to one
maybe someone else heard a different stroy with some of the same parts but different parts may have been highlighted.

all I know is that it seems to me that there are many different stories flying around here and I guess it is up to Ian to decide what or who to listen to.

I am not high-fiving
there are some things I am concerned about
people getting hurt is a real possibility

everyone has to live with their own conscience

does that make sense

but

how about the fact that there will be people who agree
people who don't

and I will keep my flaming emails between those involved ;\)