I need to stop crying, reasoning, pointing out all the good.
Yes, you do. It is not working, so quit doing it.
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Last night he said all I do is lay the guilt on him, and he's sick of it.
I am gonna have to agree that you are trying to make him feel guilty. This only pushes him away. Besides....you don't want him to stay out of guilt do you?
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I'm getting to the mad stage now, and I don't like it.
I didn't like that stage either, but I think we all go through it at some point. Just find a healty way to release it such as exercising...don't take it out on him. I know you think he deserves it...and maybe he does....but I don't think that will help your marriage. Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy? Let him go and let him miss you.
