I did not mean for you to discuss Ian's personal stuff. Although yes it does look like that....SORRY!
It was more of a generic discussion of dating and dating people from the bulletin board who have not healed.
Can't blame it on the edit button either. Damn!
Most people know how I feel about bb reltationships, I don't happen to agree with them. But thats just my opinion. Yes, I know there are happy couples formed, and an impending marriage. But I have seen more hurt than good come from them.
I do feel that a person needs to heal from thier own divorce tradgedies before forging ahead, especially if that person is from this bb and has not healed themself!
Now is not the time to get involved with another, especially if that person has not healed from thier recent divorce and the other person just finalized thiers.
It will only lead to more hurting.
It's time to heal, not hurt.
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!