I think I screwed up last night. H called me on my way home from work to ask me a question. I noticed that he was calling from his parents house. I thought he was working, and must have stopped at his parents for dinner so I asked if he wanted me to bring by the kids for a bit. He said "sure". It wasn't until I got there and didn't see the police car, that I realized this was his day off. Now, it's going to be weird. If he was working, he'd only be there for a short time, and be able to kiss the kids, and leave. But, he wasn't working. The kids were acting up and d4 got put in a time-out (by h) for a bit. Then, I made a comment about getting them home and fed. I got to talking to his mom, and the kids were noisy (normal kid noise), and h interupted and said, "I have to dictate a report, they need to eat, so (hand motion to leave)". OK. I immediately got the kids and we left. I feel like he got frustrated and WHY did I bring them over? My thinking was a quick visit while he was working. Stupid me.
H called me early this morning, while I was getting ready for work and told me that his prescription (to prevent complicated Migraines) ran out a few days ago, he hasn't been taking his meds and would I mind going through the drive-thru at Walgreens on my way to work and dropping off his meds at his parents house.
*Here's my thoughts...Walgreen's is down the street from where he's at. Yes, it's on my way to work, but seriously he is VERY close to Walgreens. I know he has a class this morning, and likely was running late, as always. It's not a money factor because his script is $1.95. Usually, I would complain that he tells me these things last minute and makes me late for work. In the past, I would complain because he would tell me on my way out that he needs a shirt ironed, dry cleaning dropped off, or meds picked up. I allow time in the morning for ONLY what I need to do to get myself and the kids ready...the rest I want to sleep, so I don't have ANY extra time in the morning. He always gets mad, "thanks for nothing. You only think of yourself, etc...)."
So, I said, "sure". I went to the drive-thru at Walgreen's but they weren't open yet. So, I called him and told him, and he said he'll pick it up later. I said, "OK, Bye." And he said, "thank you. Bye." It was pleasant.
I hate the weirdness.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."