Pinch Me.........

[Kman]

I generalized about relationships post divorce in general terms....and I still think those apply.

I agree! And, I think that although it's Ian who is the center of this discussion, it's an interesting topic and discussion in general terms, especially for this forum, which is why I wanted to weigh in in the first place. It's also why THIS is the appropriate place and not offline with anyone other than Ian.

The suggestion of discussing Ian's situation with you - something I have zero interest in doing, by the way - was just bizarre to me Jeanette.

Again, I may disagree with some of the opinions here but it all makes for a good debate on a topic near and dear to many of us following the "Big D."

Kev