The Ultimatum

[fooled again]

cat,

No, I believe I understood what you meant in your post.

I was just trying to make sure that sg, or whoever will be looking at my post (and deciding whether or not my comments are appropriate or abide by the methods described in DB or DR), won't come along and censor it. And that's all I have to say on that.

And my H has not actually taken any concrete steps as of yet. He is telling me what I want to hear, but again, I know these are just words and THIS TIME, THIS LAST TIME, words will not satisfy me, only the actions that correspond to my conditions. If H can't follow through, he can't follow through, and I will know that the time to get on w/ my life is now.

Your H made his decision, unfortunately, to LS, but he made a decision. Frankly, if my H made the same decision at this stage of the game, I believe that I would be just as content to get on w/ my life w/out him - I just really, really need to get on w/ my life. I'm not bitter or angry, really - it's like Michelle says, sometimes a M can't be saved; that's just the way it is. I'm ready to face that if that's how it has to be. I'm honestly okay with it - and I NEVER thought I would ever be able to say that

FA