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Please understand that I am not criticizing anyone here in any way, shape or form, but I honestly believe that all the DBing in the world would not have ended his A or brought him home until he was either forced to choose or a choice was made for him by someone else

hmm, perhaps my post didn't come out the way I intended, I wasn't suggesting to just hang in there til the cows came home despite all the betrayals/lies, moreover, I was not aware your H is actually taking steps in the right direction.
I agreed with you, that the measure you took was the right one because your H needed to make up his mind.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.