Well not sure how to react to this. Today she calls me and needs my address. And of course I ask why and she says she needs to fill out paperwork. I have a feeling she has filed and we are moving full steam ahead toward the big D. Nothing I can really do about it so guess I will continue on as normal
At the risk of repeating myself a jillion times, Ted, you really need to calmly ask her for clarification. If she is asking you for dinner and open to working on a new relationship with you, why is she sending you divorce papers?
Just ask one simple question. Figure out exactly how you want to word it, write it down, practice saying it, and then call her up and ask her.
Have a pen and paper with you, write down exactly what she says, pause, say "I see." then end the conversation, and post it to us.
