Thanks Cat03 for checking in on me, thank you all, H4H, Puppy, karen, kat, sara, germ, cbk, lwb
Cat03 when I exchanged wedding vows, I meant what I said, one time recently W was asking me why I still wanted her, I told her becasue when we got married, I meant what I said, for better or worse etc.
I feel sorry for my W, she was trying to be the perfect mom in a imperfect world. I truly believe she has OCD Obsessive-compulsive disorder. She cannot handle the little stuff. fingerprints on a mirror etc. I never took advantage of this, just think you're mad at someone and just doing the smallest thing would flip them out, say a glass of ice water on the coffee table - - - with no coaster
I do feel sorry for my W, she is confused, she needs help. Its sad, she does feel pain and its going to get worse when kids are in school fulltime and she doesn't see them everyday.
Well "Always Look on the Bright Side of Life" I hear whistling in my head. I'll find love again someday. I'm going to be happy, helpful, forgiving, patient and loving. I'm a stubborn person of German descent.
We all have a long haul ahead of us, good or bad it's the path we choose in life that's important.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
