Jonzy,

I'm sure others will have some better advice. She really seems confused and back and forth. She asks you to come over for a meal and then next says she has paperwork. From the short history, I wouldn't believe it until you see it. But you are reacting the correct way. You can't do anything about it. Good for you.

Reading you sitch has helped me too. I need to remember that I can't control anything my W does. If she's with OM, I can't do anything about it. If she's not being a good parent, I can't do anything to change her. You doing well, keep it up.

Keep posting.


M 35 W 28 D 4

Bomb 4/28/08
Found out about PA 05/14/08
Separated 5/25/08 (not legally)

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