lodo, in your thinking, do you subscribe to the "soulmate" theory, or something similar.

It is driving me nuts how well WW and I get along with each other. I know that what she sometimes spews is a defense mechanism. She tries to convince herself of how or what we mean to each other. A rewrite, if you will. I see this in your WW also. The things she says do not match her actions.

Am I just deluded and over hopeful? Is that how you feel?

Last edited by hopeful4her; 06/12/08 04:03 PM.

Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."