My h and I have been separated 8 months. We saw each other once a week until a month ago when we went on holiday (separately) for 3 weeks and I found out about a potential ea. When I got back he said he could no longer do this and I haven't seen him since. That was when I discovered DB - I wish I had done so sooner! He wants to now meet up to discuss what is going to happen.
I'm still hopeful though... I love him. Posting here is an excellent form of support.