I wanted to comment on when your H is telling everyone that he is getting a D. I heard that too. My H was telling my neighbors, his brothers, my family, everyone. He wanted to justify what he was doing. Whatever!!!! It did cut like a knife though. I was also scared to see sheriff cars around the neighborhood. I was afraid that I would be served any time. It didn't happen! So like I said that doesn't mean anything right now. Hang in there.