I agree with Tink - and I have done alot of that myself but I think I am going to step it up a notch - basically go almost completely dark except for kid stuff.
And even if the "makeover" stuff does nothing for H, it will do something for you. I have the perfect excuse with the wedding coming up.
Any chance you can get away for a long weekend somewhere as a retreat? I'm trying to fit that in this summer - have my 30th HS reunion I'm trying to get to as well. Maybe a mystery trip, that he accidentally finds out about..... Just a thought - not really a game - a needed retreat but he doesn't need to know specifics!


Me-48 H-48
Married 25years
Sep 12/05
S-24, S-22, S-18, D-12
Dated for 9 months of S, not dating now
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