Oh okay...I see what happened.

I got my pending divorce case dismissed b/c my husband put wrong info and an invalid grounds for divorce. But if he does file again, whether right or wrong grounds, I will counter-file and let him have his divorce.

It's baffling...I'm pretty sure if he wanted to make sure he was really going to get a divorce that he would truly make sure he would get one.

As a man, what's your take on that?

(sorry to threadjack, you can post your reply in my thread)

As a woman, I believe your wife is indeed coming up with "BS" reasons to call you...she wants that contact. Hearing you or knowing you are responding is fulfilling a need of hers.

I think you SHOWING that you are supposedly moving on and are making a great life for yourself and improving is attracting her to you.

Next time you see her, make sure you look *extra* HOT! \:\)