MTN,

You don't know me, I'm pretty new here- H dropped the ILYBNILWY bomb last July, moved out 3 months ago, and still doesn't know what he wants. Maybe divorce, maybe not, so I live in limbo right now, and am still on the emotional rollercoaster. I always look at the posts of restored marriages, but your's gives me hope on the other side of things. I'm turning 40 on Sat., and I keep thinking who's going to want to date a 40 year old with 2 kids? But it sounds like you've made a new awesome life for yourself and your kids, and found a great guy. Should my situation go the D route, I can only hope to be so lucky! Congratulations!


Me 39
H 45
T13 M11
D6.5 S4
ILYBNILWY July 07
OW e-mails found 12/15/07
H moved out 3/15/08