A Very Rough Year - Breast Cancer & MLC

[TwinDad]

Hey hope,

Sorry the alien got dropped off by the spaceship again. At least you kept your cool and didn't get caught up in his fight. Remember they are looking for any little excuse to start a fight or to justify their feelings. The good thing is that your H does seem to show some remorse afterwards....he knows something isn't right with him.

He also said that he knows there is a guy out there that can make me happier, and that I should think about that.

I can't tell you how many times by my W something like this. It is always you can do better than me. I always respond with something like "I have no doubt I can find someone else that will treat me very good, but that is my decision to make not yours; if I want you or want someone else....I want you"

He said that our marriage was in deep trouble before I got cancer; we had some bad fights etc., blah, blah, blah.

I always get a kick out of this. They always seem to have this romanticized view of what marriage is all about. I can't fault them, cause I imagine everyone at some point or another has had that viewpoint.

he does not want me out "screwing" (his word) other guys. OMG!

Being the quick witted and sarcastic person I can be, I would have had to bite my toungue off to keep from saying "you mean I have to stop" Not looking to make light of your sitch....just these off the mark things really bring out my devious side

My evening was pretty neutral. W went out with some friends to a local pub and texted me a few times throughout the night. I was just about ready to go to sleep (at 10) when she told me she was on her way home. So I decided to stay up a little and hang out with her. It was a fairly nice time curled up together.

She did have one semi-alien moment where she was messing around with the cord on her laptop trying to get it to work and said "I am about to get very angry". I just sat their and laughed and said "Honey its ok....would you like some help"

Exercising is always a good thing....it really does help with the stress and gives you more energy to deal with the crap.

Today we are leaving to go to the beach around noon and not getting back until Monday evening, so I doubt I will be able to check in much (if at all). I will try to send a couple friends your way to give you some ears to talk to.