Hi Lodo I'm listening, but a bit distracted today as my major professor needs for a summer class are pressing, the weather here is a major concern, and I have two hour drive each way today to get to campus to deal with the summer class issues.
I'll re-read this right before I leave and then ponder your thoughts & questions on my drive. I'll check in later tonight.
Right now I can tell you that you & my H have said the same thing about how the R could be enough... best friends with sex is how he defines what is enough for him to be in a marriage relationship. Is that what I'm hearing you say is enough for you?
I don't agree with that. Maybe women & men define best friends differently, I don't know about that. I need to think about that and your question about being more accepting of who he is.
Have a good day. Thanks for the thoughts.
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
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