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[jon2911]

OK, hopefully you're right, because that would be encouraging I guess.

I understand it might have been shooting her down. When I first started seeing my C back in March, I was ready to quit my job and move to Houston. When W and live close to each other, we can't stay away from each other. At the time, I didn't think there was anything for me here, and just wanted to save my M.

C said that would be a terrible idea. W's family, especially FIL, is the biggest part of the problem here (his conclusion). Last thing I need to do is move there. I need to be stable, be attractive, have a great life here and offer her the chance to be a part of it. Stability is extremely important to W, just like most COA.

The more I think about it, he's right. Maybe 5 years from now I could live close to FIL, and only if he gets help for his anger problem. The judge ordered him to anger management after his D, but he needs more.

And things are really happening here, I love my job and am making a lot of new friends, playing a lot of music, etc. I always hated Houston anyway

If W said "I want to make this work, please move here", I probably would, but that's not what she's saying. At least, not that specific.