Thank you Tink. That is all great advice. I actually do a lot of that currently. And have done that in the past as well.

But I will, again, not contact him but allow him to contact me, and when he does, I will not be available to him.

I truly do not contact him much at all these days. Emailing him about this concert was actually "doing something different" from what I have been doing.

But I agree, being agreeable all the time isn't working.


Married: 25 years
Separated: 5 years
Kids: 2, ages 21 and 24
Me: 53
H: 50

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