Thank you Tink. That is all great advice. I actually do a lot of that currently. And have done that in the past as well.
But I will, again, not contact him but allow him to contact me, and when he does, I will not be available to him.
I truly do not contact him much at all these days. Emailing him about this concert was actually "doing something different" from what I have been doing.
But I agree, being agreeable all the time isn't working.
Married: 25 years Separated: 5 years Kids: 2, ages 21 and 24 Me: 53 H: 50