SF; Yes.....My H did look shaken when I mentioned what he said to D15...like...what???....I didn't say that....then of course they try to cover it with something else...
I can't say that my H has ever been mean....raised his voice a few times but he doesn't come across mean at alll..
When I loaded the stuff by myself in the car last week he called me a marter cause I shouldn't be lifting a grill...and said I was doing it because I was mad...yes I was mad but I had to get my son to bball....it had to be done and he was to busy traveling back from OW house to get there on time....
My H avoids me at all costs....if he needs to be here at 11:00, I can guarantee he will be here at 10:59...seriously...it's ridiculous..and then comes in with his smirk on his face...and the "HI"...anyway if he wants to pretend to be happy....tell his friends he's getting divorced...Yes, that is what he is telling them...that it's a mutual decision..blah, blah, blah....then so be it....I guess that's his justification...
I did pray the Hedge of Thorns....now I hope it works in time...I will pray it every day....
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity