Help! New to this...still hoping for R

[Rusty]

I am going to try all of those suggestions. Right now is really busy, so it hasn't been as bad. After my S wedding I am going to really focus on me and doing some NEW things. I am really tired of the same old stuff, which has basically being going out, eating and drinking and coming home lonely! Done. I may try some home improvement projects on my condo. I did some of that in the beginning and it made me feel really accomplished that I did it without H!
My S getting married arrives for the wedding on Wednesday and so does my best college friend, so I will have alot to get ready for.
Thanks for the ideas!