Good for you! Thats a brilliant thing to do, but your hair looks ace in the 2nd pics. Are you happy with it shorter? Thats such a thing to do though isnt it, cut that man outta your hair.
I thought you handled your conversation with your friend really well, as she was telling you all kinds of things about your H being motivated to start an R with someone else !!!? Maybe you really dont have any love left for him.
I'm sorry that this happened to you, but I am relieved that you sound so strong and positive and you are not in a hole about it.
We all completely feel taht this guy does not deserve you and I also agree that unless he gets T, history WILL repeat itself and he will end up like his Dad. Thats sad though isnt it? Its kind of not his fault, its what his Dad showed him, move on son, next! He needs to take responsibility and become an adult!
Ali xx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
I'm in complete agreement with Ali. He needs to grow up and you need to move forward. He's a completely delusional moron who needs T.....LOTS AND LOTS OF T!!!!
((((((((((Michelle)))))))))))))
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
You take care of you and we'll see you when you get back.
BIG HUGS! Abbey
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I think you can hit Notify and ask the mods to do it.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
Me too. I wonder what the longest thread has been!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..