meetup.com is a great idea, Tink. I've joined a walking group through that and found a wine tasting group too.

Rusty, the best way to take the focus off of what your husband is doing is to put it on you. Volunteering somewhere would take up your time, allow you to interact with new people, and give you some satisfaction.

The point is, you have much to offer people, and you will find that it makes you a happier person to be doing things for others.

Last edited by MP53; 06/12/08 10:27 AM.
Married: 25 years
Separated: 5 years
Kids: 2, ages 21 and 24
Me: 53
H: 50

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