Actually the last thing that I told the counselor was that I think the next step for us would be us coming to counseling together. The counselor thought so too and said that he could mention it to her to see what she thinks, told him that would be good if he could.
I do like your thought and approach on it though, cause I haven't looked at it like that.
As far as the friends and family advice I feel the same way that you stated.
I did read your post, does sound really good for you. It sounds like you have things in perspective and are making very thoughtful moves.
Has for you and myself both I think you're right in your observation on staying consistent and proving this to her over the long haul.
