we share custody....I lucked out and got the exact same schedule as my wife, but exactly the opposite. So, on the days she works, I am off and vice versa.

I've TRIED to do what she's asked. It has been about 2 1/2 weeks though that I've REALLY cut off almost all contact with her, except the absolutely necessary stuff.

"Believe nothing they say and half of what they do." yeah, I remember reading that. It gets hard to trust though when you hear the same thing over and over and over again though.

Well, at LEAST I have the fact that she has not filed yet...although I suspect it is the fact she doesnt have the money to do it that is stopping her, but I guess I'll take any time I can get.

I'm just REALLY focusing on trying to detatch from her and live my OWN life for the time being...and leaving HER alone. I figure at least of the D does happen (god forbid), I will have a decent head-start on getting my life back in order.