When all of this happened and thank God, the anger lasted less than a year, I had called my H's sister who is a lawyer and counsleor.
She was the first one to tell me about projecting.
Don't take it all personally but I know how much it hurts and you also hurt for your kids, too.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
