I can tell you that there were things my H said in the beginning of this mess back in 2005. I told him some of the things he did/said and he does not have any recollection of it!
Some of the things he said were to his own daughters and when I told him he said those things on more than one occasion to them, I think I really crushed him as he looked visibly shaken.
Really, they don't remember many things but other things they do remember.
I would also recommend Bob's books as they were so helpful.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
