Think of it this way: He has been taken captive by the enemy. And many times, they do not remember everything they say/do.
GO and read some of Charlyne Cares information on this and I think you will be comforted.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19