That my friend is because you are a defender of the faith. You believe that not all things are as simple as right or wrong. I tend to lean with you on that as you know.
You know if I think about premarriage, I would have never been this honest with a woman about intentions or lack there of. So I actually believe that all be it only a dating/fun thing, it is also a huge sign that I have grown and am able to communicate and not lead on.
I believe Kev that someone summed it up pretty well. It is obvious that people on here care or they would not even bother with it. I look through all the adversity of our varying opinions and I see the good in people actually giving a crap and letting me know that they care enough to tell me their opinions even when they don't concur with mine. That is how we learn and grow isn't it? Trial and error????
Not for nothing, but you suck. Why the hell do you lurk when your advice and insight after two DB efforts are so amazing at times. You know there is this guy...no two guys in newcomers that you probably could really help. M in Tennessee and Ready2Change. Both really good guys, both struggling as things unfold, both in need of some sage advice right now. Any of you other oldtimers around here, check in on these two, They are in the middle of the storm and trying to find their way through.
In fact, AMYC,read M in Tennessee's post from today after his mediation. he needs some help as he finds himself in Job's place right now and is questioning his faith.You happen to be outstanding in that arena so please pop in and lets help our brother find his feet again.
I am off to bed, 12 hour shift tomorrow and then dinner with my friend
