Yes sorry to hijack thread. Having deja vu for some reason right now as I post and texting a friend about my W. But have a couple of comments that came to mind as I read these posts from last few hours.
Well I thought the no-no was not to contact with WAW family and cant find it on here again, but an apology is different I guess and christarn said her coach said to,so like many other times, I might be wrong.
I read when W first filed (2-14-08) to a friend "its not something I want to do, its something that has to been done". But then a few weeks later tells counselor "yeah I probably shouldnt have filed" so I dont know if that was another lie or what.
I know the feelings. I go to court Monday, and that sets up the final date 77-106 days after that so yea, we will be right around the same time. Lucky you dont have kids involved, just a dog. Just hang in there and take it one day at a time. You have been through this before so you know the feelings you have had before are repairable.
my stories
M-31 W-28 S7 D2.5 T 8, M 4 W filed 2-14-08 D on hold 3/08 D off hold 5/08 D to be final on/by Nov 08 Anniv 9-4 looked hopeful