It's the "not knowing" what's going to happen that is killing me right now. GAL right this minute is almost impossible as you can imagine.
ma, I'm sorry things are working out the way they are for you. I followed your sitch from the beginning and am aware how much work you put into DB'ing. I do hope you are deriving some comfort from all the people who are here and who have been supporting and advising you.
I found great deal of solace from a book by Susan Jeffers titled, Embracing Uncertainty: Breakthrough Methods for Achieving Peace of Mind When Facing the Unknown. I read it when (by pre-arrangement) my husband cut short a trip we had originally planned to celebrate our 25th wedding anniversary. We parted ways in England and he flew home to move out of our home and into his own apartment.
As you are now, I was facing a huge unknown and it was causing me great discomfort. The book helps one gain a sense of detachment from a difficult situation and helps one be more rational and less driven by my emotion.
I'll be thinking of you on Friday. It sounds like you have a good lawyer on your side. Your H is giving your attorney plenty of reasons for the judge to find in your favor.
Me: 59 H: 59 Together: 28 years Married: 25 years in August "There may be someone else" 12/26/07 H signed a one year lease 4/1/08 H moved out 5/11/08
Me: 59 H: 59 Together: 28 years Married: 25 years in August "There may be someone else" 12/26/07 H signed a one year lease 4/1/08 H moved out 5/11/08 H beginning to show a tiny amount of interest 7/5/08 Is it possible that he is courting me? 9/30/08
