Originally Posted By: lwb
When are you going to start talking to D about moving and H possibly moving somewhere else?

How do you know about the links OW sends H by the way?


lwb - I'm not sure when we'll talk to her. She really doesn't have that concept of time yet. She always says "yesterday" and that to her means two weeks ago or actually just yesterday. I think it will be very close to our move. I want to look at some literature and see what advice I can find.

In answer to your other question....BUSTED. Yes, I snoop. I quit for a long time but I've been looking at the history on our pc lately just to get some clue as to what's going on in his life, as he tells me nothing. It's not painful anymore. It's annoying that he doesn't tell me anything but not painful. It's strange how I've gotten past the point of being devastated at seeing these things. I just want to know. It's funny because if I bring something up he's convinced that I've looked at his email. In the only thing close to a discussion that we've had, I mentioned links to rentals & love songs. I didn't see his email, just the history in the pc. I can tell when it's a link vs. him searching.

It's odd here again. H's couple of days of being cold seem to have passed. Maybe the visit with the attorney put him more at ease. He's called a couple of times tonight. This last time was to ask me to remind him to call his boss tomorrow morning about a deal that he has coming up and to tell me that he was running about 10 minutes late. He offered to make us breakfast in the morning. He usually takes D4 to daycare on Thursdays but I'm doing it tomorrow. He's going tomorrow to buy tickets to take D4 and I to "Walking with Dinosaurs" on Sat. He wanted to take her and asked if I wanted to go too. He'll probably see OW before work tomorrow too. Thursday seems to be their day....YUCK!

SueS


ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day