Yep, on the outside, things with my XW and OM seem to be perfect, but what I hear, its not.....funny, it looked that way when XW and I were together too...lol.

I hear a lot, and since I keep my nose out of it...as long as the kids are fine, I am cool with the sitch...she doesnt talk to me anyway unless its about the kids. She feels she cant come for me to talk, cause when we did, I always let hope linger in but whatever, I find Im better off if I dont hear from her. Tragically, I feel anymore that I cant stand for her to call me...

So now, I hope OM knows he is getting into a major dysfunctional family that I was able to deal with, but not many can....so good luck to him!!

God Bless

Chevelle