SC...your swag is greatly appreciated and from a womans stand point is what I need especially from one who has felt that pain and can shoot straight from the hip. The heads up from Mike and ping1 helped me prepare for her going that direction so I had plenty of time to get my head right, the odd thing was I have.. thanks to this board and people like your self and reading the books and reading other sitch's and believing in the principles of Michele I felt at ease when we talked and realizing my faults made it more comfortable discussing her issues and validating them.
She made the comment that I was answering her slowly and that I seemed to be choosen the right words to which I replied no not at all I am just actually listening to you and speaking from the heart.
You have explained things very clearly to be able to formulate a plan in which to follow, thank you for taking your time to read this and post...
