I would come home from work and the kids were all "at my feet" wanting this and that and there was H gropping(sp?) or trying to set up a sexual encounter while I still had everyone wanting me. I was always pulled in 5 directions (rarely my own). It could have been solved if he could have helped the kids with dinner, homework etc, but he would wait until I got home(he would get home around 5, me around 7:30) and let me handle all of it and then just be waiting for me.
Lots of pressure and didn't make it fun. I often asked him for what I needed but he just cared about me fulfilling his wants. He must have held a grudge for a long time.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory