You seem like such a sweet person and I think you are being so strong. Very inspiring! I bet it has definitely crossed his mind that it has been a long time since you talked. I bet he is surprised that you have not contacted him -- probably not what he expected. I know my H even said to me that he was surprised 'how well i seemed to be taking everything' and he was bothered by it! Like I should be crying in front of him all the time and that would make him feel better (???). Hang in there!
Me 32/H 32 M 3yrs/T 8 yrs 0 kids and 1 dog Bomb 5/15/08 - wants to end it to pursue OW Seeing OW and moving out 7/08