Yes and your friend is probably thinking, "what are they talking about?" She's probably feeling just like we did K, and thinking that her life is over. I feel for her. I'd never want to go back and do it all again. Those days sucked! What she really needs is for someone who will listen while she gets it all out, but then again your friends who have never been through it can't know this.

What she can't yet realize is that she's already lucky to have you for a friend because you get it. Plus through you she'll see that sometimes these stories do have happy endings!

Love,
Bethie