Despite how I feel about your H at times, I really hope that things work out well.
I'll be thinking about you.
Same goes for me. I hope his superiors can look beyond the multiple late arrivals one more time. If he's been a good employee in other aspects, I'm sure they can try to understand why he's been late so often lately. We all go through difficult times in our lives and I would say things couldn't be more stressful than right now. I'm sending my compassionate vibes to your husband's employer as I type.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence