Checking in on you. Glad to hear you're standing up for yourself. It might be the kick in the pants H needs. Not much changing in my sich, although W is friendlier and seems to be inching her way out of her MLC. I've given up, and have started dating.
If H does want to come back, I agree on him being transparent. I honestly don't know what I would do or say if W wanted to come back now, she has done a lot of damage.
Mike
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