K, OD is totally serious, there is a special chapter on a modified series of exercises you can do in the car!!!

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I'm sure he's processing in his cave.
Lisa, you are so smart!!! I think you're totally right!! I am so glad I understand the Man Cave now. I don't have to take the silence personally!!

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Havee you read the Time Traveller's Wife? She was always waiting- just like us. Waiting, waiting......
OMG... I LOVE that book. I wept my eyes out...

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Did you send him that e-mail about it being nice to meet up? And did he reply? I guess not yet as you haven't posted about it.


I did send him a 4 line it was nice to see you again email with a link to the mother uckers flight of the concords video. I haven't gotten a personal email from him, but just now I got a Mass Email from him:

Hello!

I am playing my first solo show here in NYC next Monday, June 16, 7pm at the XXXXX Lounge. I'll be playing some Bluegrass, Bach, Improv, and maybe a cover or two. I'll be belting out the lyrics with my highly untrained voice, and accompanying myself with my own fiddle. All in all, I'm going to have a blast and I invite you to join me! So come on down to the XXXXX Lounge and bring a friend or two!

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He attached the flyer/poster, which is a HOT picture of him. Funny, all the other pictures he's pointed me to online have been NOT HOT. Looking at this hot picture fills me with many conflicted emotions, including both yearning and anger!!

So, what do I do? I am not sure whether or not he actually wants me to come. I may have unwittingly backed him into a corner on this one. If he didn't include me in his mass email then he would have obviously been slighting me. But he might not actually want me to be there.

If he was "just a friend", the "friendly" thing for me to do would be to go to the concert to support him.

????

Should I ask him something like, "Do you want me to come? I understand if you don't want me to be there, and I will not be offended. But I am very interested in hearing you play, and I want to support your concert." Or would that be too close to having an R talk or an R email?

OR... I could reciprocate by sending HIM a mass email inviting him to MY concert on Saturday. Even though I'm not sure if I would want him to be there... I am feeling super ASS about my playing right now. My part is HARD....

Positives:
-he included me in his email
-now I know where his concert is if I want to go
-he looks hot in the picture, which is reassuring, esp with all this.... BEARD business!!!

Maybe I could go and slip in as unseen as possible... so as not to disturb his concentration...

if you guys think I should go then it's time for me to start planning my next *outfit*

As always, eagerly awaiting your advisements.....

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