Gosh lwb, I'm really sorry to hear that. Sounds like he's a mess. I understand the part about this not being good for you either. This DUI my H got could put a crimp in things for me too. Despite how I feel about your H at times, I really hope that things work out well.
I'll be thinking about you.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day