H is probably going to get fired. He was late for work this morning and freaked out. Apparently this is the fourth time he has been late in three weeks. Was written up and threatened with termination last time. He is a mess. Is this rock bottom? He was walking around the house "I can't take this." "I am going to break"...I told him I was sorry it happened, that his hours are hard, but then I left him alone. No fixing here. He is waiting to hear their decision.
This will not be good. Not for me, and especially not for H. He has been with them for almost a year (great job, benefits, retirement). He won't be able to buy a house if he loses this job, even if he gets another one. Even detached, its hard to watch him suffer. But its different, because I feel bad for him, but I am not emotionally involved with it.
