Retrouvaille here I come

[Dr LOve]

I wanted to start a new thread because the old one is about to lock.
ALSO this may be the start of a NEW chapter in my life....

Ok So I was out back with my son shooting at the crows that have been attacking my dog and cat. My Wife comes out side and said I had a phone call. When I got to the door she said it was from Retrouvaille, they wanted to talk to both of us.
I picked up the phone and it was “Frank”. He said he had some questions / statements that he had to read to us and we needed to answer them. (My Wife was on the other line...

#1

Are we seeing any psychiatrist?
Me: No just a counselor a few months back
Wife: same answer

Frank; Ok it is just that if you are you can go ahead and tell them you are coming here.

#2

If either spouse is involved in an affair, that relationship must be severed before you attending the weekend.

Me: Ok
Wife: OK

#3

You must follow the communication method taught throughout the program and fully participate in the six post-weekend sessions.
Me: yes
Wife; what if a date interferes with a family function?

Frank:
You can have make up days.

Wife: ok it’s just that it is far away and the travel time and all.

Frank. You can’t miss all of them. But one or two can be made up.

Me: We will do our best effort to make it

Frank: great I understand



SOOO I have my confirmation. I did feel uncomfortable when he asked the “affair” question but W did not hesitate to answer.
I was going to check the phone but now I am going to build some trust and let it go.
I also was not thinking about the after sessions but wife seemed really willing to go. (Except to mass). It may not have come across that way the way how I wrote it here but she was not hesitant or really looking for an excuse to not go…


That’s it for now

Later

Husband