I was always bad about making comments under my breath back at him and it really irrated him. Numerous times he would say something to the effect "this isn't the way to go about it." My interpretation being, that there was a way for me to talk to him that wouldn't push him away.
I have tried really hard not to bring up OW, talk back under my breath, set up arguments or walk into them myself and lastly let him deal with the mess with the kids. I am trying to stay as detached as possible because I am so tired of getting hurt. Besides I probably wasn't very attractive while crying, yelling, pleading. Lesson learned but hopefully not to late.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Thanks, it really helps to hear that. I think you have gone to hell and back while I am still just waiting for the train home, so don't question your own strength.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Oh, shoot, I think I missed most of it already and I don't want to miss a precious second when I do watch it. Is there a lot of R talk in the movie? I didn't think there would be! Kat anytime Saturday is fine with me! Karen
I will probably check with everyone tomorrow. I know lodo is supposed to be working on a paper but I may be able to get his attention to check with him. Did you see g got a job offer? Possibly even a second one tomorrow?
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory