Help! New to this...still hoping for R

[Rusty]

Isn't it incredible? Same thing - business is going well and he bags on us only to make more of a financial struggle with two households!
Tink - as always - absolutely on target. I need to stop worrying so much about what he is doing. Although it eats away at me like crazy. I will look up the book and was unaware of any yahoo groups. And I can't believe how the small picture is all I am seemingly capable of seeing right now. And I have really always been like that I am realizing now. Big Picture and Do Over are going to be my mantra's!
I think the depression of the situation creeps in on me when the kids aren't around to keep it at bay. I have four horses and I really should be out with them on the weekends. My S,still at home, has two and I have two, but my S isn't very interested anymore and will leave for college in August. I do try to go out with friends on the weekends, but during the day I need to fill the time - and not with cleaning!!!