I have a hard time feeling like any woman will ever truly love me. I have a hard time believing that I am ever going to feel secure enough to trust a woman again.
Ian,
I know how you feel. I have so been there. The REAL kicker is I chose my wife BECAUSE I TRUSTED HER! She betrayed me in the worst way.
How did I recover? I first came to grips with nothing on this Earth is permanent. Marriages can end. People can betray me. That is just the way it is. I got used to it. Second, I realized there are good women out there. They, believe it or not, have trouble finding good guys. Not every women has the lack of morals or values your ex-W had. Many of these gals just want a chance. Many of them have been through similar things you have. Life is all about chances. You need to take them in relationships. My prayer for you, my friend, is that God will continually guide you on this journey.
I wish you all the best.
Take Care,
NMD
Last edited by No_More_Dodo; 06/11/0807:51 PM.
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
