I don't think he messed it up on purpose, though you never know. More likely in the rush of emotion, he just messed it up.
Very few situations are hopeless. The trick right now is to remember that you can't control him, or "make" him do, or see anything. But you can control you, your life, and your actions. When he is ready to look, he will see an attractive person, that he might be willing to try to work on his relationship with.
I have a hard time believing he has no love left for you. But, I expect that he has buried it deeply, hiding it even from himself.
